How to Lead a Passionate Life Without Being Passionate About Your Job

I’m all about pursuing your passions. I mean, one of my passions is the idea that doing what you’re passionate about is possible! But with all the talk about doing what you love, it’s easy to get really caught up in figuring out a way to pursue your passion as a career. People worry that they shouldn’t do anything they don’t love because that basically negates the whole American dream. This is a nice idea, but it gets stressful really quickly because the fact is, our current economy means it’s just not responsible to be so picky.

But I’ve realized that you can do what you’re passionate about…you just don’t have to be passionate about everything you do, and you don’t have to be passionate about your job.

I’m lucky because I currently really love my job, but I’ve also made sure that if I, like many people, suddenly find myself without that job (like I did two years ago), I’ll still be able to lead a passionate life. Here are ways I’ve found to lead a passionate life without being passionate about your full-time job.

Realize that your passion might not be career-related. Some people are passionate about their families, homes, pets, or friends. You might be passionate about renovating your house, but that doesn’t mean you need to start a career in interior design. You could be passionate about your significant other or kids, but that doesn’t mean you’d be passionate about other people’s families. Some passions are specific to your situation and you won’t necessarily find yourself making a full-time job out of them. That’s OK.

Find a day job you don’t hate. We spend our whole lives thinking we have to know what we want to be when we grow up, but the fact is, most people end up in jobs they didn’t even know existed when they were a kid on career day. Sure, you might not be passionate about accounts receivables, but if you like your company and your coworkers and have the time and mental energy to pursue your passions in your free time, then you might realize that your sounds-kinda-boring day job is actually perfect for you.

Figure out how you can pursue your passion without making a dime. If you don’t know how to make a career out of your passion, figure out how you can work it into your life in a different way. If you’re passionate about animals but can’t afford to go to veterinary school, think about all the ways you could volunteer with animals. If you’re passionate about photography but don’t think you have a shot, join a photography meetup group or start a photo blog where you can dabble without trying to earn money. It’s amazing how doing something you’re passionate about just a few hours a week can light up your whole life.

Remember that being passionate about your job can be exhausting. Good exhausting, but exhausting all the same! When you love something, you’ll work at way more than the standard 40 hours a week, and that can become really consuming. If you have less time to pursue your passion, you might find you have more balance in all areas of your life.

I love that we live in a society where we’re encouraged to do what we love for work, but trying to do that can be overwhelming and, at times, unrealistic. Although it seems counterintuitive, letting go of the idea that you have to be passionate about your job can actually be a huge step toward satisfaction and happiness.

THIS POST, WRITTEN BY RACHEL WILKERSON, ORIGINALLY APPEARED ON THE LIFE & LESSONS OF RACHEL WILKERSON AND IS CROSS-POSTED WITH PERMISSION.

6 thoughts on “How to Lead a Passionate Life Without Being Passionate About Your Job”

  1. If my job fit this description, I would have such a happier life. Being tapped out at work in return for no money, no recognition, nothing but stress – eek.

    “… but if you like your company and your coworkers and have the time and mental energy to pursue your passions in your free time, then you might realize that your sounds-kinda-boring day job is actually perfect for you.”

    For a while I was very concerned that I didn’t have A PASSION aside from writing, which isn’t exactly a reliable income for me right now. I’ve realized that finding a job that isn’t giving me ulcers of the soul would really be enough.

  2. My favorite gigs have been the ones I’m either not being paid for at all, or being paid very little to do. Including editing for P-Mag. :) Sometimes I find that I can be more objective and less emotional if my job is something that’s outside of my passions, and that tends to make me a better employee.

  3. Thanks for this article!

    This was really timely for me. I was a theater major in college, and am currently working a desk job by day and volunteer stage managing by night. I sometimes wonder if I’d go for a paid position at the theater but then I’d probably have no remaining time to occasionally hang out with Mr. krmit. (not that I have any free time now, but that at least ends in November…)

    Just because you’re not paid for it doesn’t mean it’s not absolutely worthwhile.

  4. This is so, so smart.

    I’ve found that work brings many fewer stresses and frustrations if you have things going on that you’re crazy about outside of work, and I think when I’m energized about other things, it actually makes me a better and funner person to work with, too. :)

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