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Funky Junk and TMJ BJs

May 16, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

Q: Hello, Frisky Feminist! Today I have an oral sex question. Well, several.
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Getting in Touch with Yourself

May 2, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

Q: How does one masturbate if they are a virgin and don’t know how to penetrate the right way…but the clit isn’t satisfying enough? Read the rest of this entry →

From the Archives: Bum’s the Word

April 11, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

Q: I’ve been toying with the idea of anal sex for MONTHS, literally months, and I can’t get up the courage to try it. Baby steps, yes, but taking that final leap still freaks me out for some reason. I think it’s a combo of the poo issue and the horror stories you hear about rips/tears, etc. I know that’s not how it’d go, but even the remote possibility of that makes it really hard for me to get relaxed enough to be comfortable with the idea. Read the rest of this entry →

Orgasms In My Sleep: How, and Why Now?

March 28, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

Q: So I’m in my mid twenties and I’ve started waking up mid orgasm every week for the past month or so. And I don’t get it. I’ve never had this (I don’t want to say issue cause it’s kind of fun..) happen before. Not during puberty when that sort of thing is more common, so I’m curious as to why. Why do these things happen and what do you think could have changed that I’d start having them about a decade after puberty? Read the rest of this entry →

“How Can I Enjoy Sex When I Don’t Like How I Look Naked?”

March 14, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

Q: I’ve lost a lot of weight in the past year. I mean, basically the net weight of a couple of pre-schoolers. I’ve got a little ways to go to get to my goal (which is whatever weight I land at while I train for a couple of half marathons). As I am impressed with my ability to essentially leap tall buildings in a single bound, I am utterly miserable with how I look without my clothes on. Read the rest of this entry →

From the Archives: A Carnival of Colors In My Pants

February 29, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

We’re busily reading in preparation for an upcoming book review post as well as doing some research to answer a few questions submitted by some lovely Persephoneers, so we’re reaching back into our archives to find another one of our favorite “we take one for the team and see what happens when we follow magazine sex advice” posts. Read the rest of this entry →

Our Second Favorite Thing To Do In Bed

February 22, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

I’ve been saying for a while now (mostly to myself but sometimes to future Mr. paperispatient) that I’d like to do more reviews for this column… Read the rest of this entry →

Does Anyone (Outside of Naughty Books) Really Get That Wet?

February 15, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

Q: To counteract the insanity of the holiday season, I decided to treat myself to a number of romance/erotic novels. One thing that I keep wondering about is all these women who, when starting to get aroused, feel moisture on their thighs, or dripping down their legs… Read the rest of this entry →

What’s the Secret to Squirting?

February 8, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

Q: Orgasming is usually pretty easy for me, so for the Great Orgasm Challenge, I’m wanting to learn how to have a squirting/female ejaculation orgasm. I’ve squirted before, but not intentionally. How do I get myself to do that again? Read the rest of this entry →

From the Archives: Projectile Candy Beads and Flaccid Taffy

February 1, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

We’ll be back to answer all your burning questions next week, but this week we take a look back at one of your favorite “we try it so you don’t have to” posts: taking Cosmo’s advice on incorporating candy into your sex. Read the rest of this entry →

We Review It: Tickle My Tush

January 25, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

If you’ve been reading this column long enough, you know that we’re not just interested in sex — we’re also big nerds and love books. So when the folks at Tickle Kitty contacted us to see if we wanted to review Dr. Sadie Allison’s newest book, we jumped at the chance. Even if you’ve never thought about anal play being for you, read on — actually, you’re precisely the audience Sadie is writing for. Read the rest of this entry →

“What If I Can’t Really Feel the Motion of the Ocean?”

January 18, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

Q: Okay, so, I have a new sexy times partner (yay!). We’re getting to know each other and so far he seems open to new things and he listens. I always get a heck of nervous with a new partner, but eventually I mellow out, so I’m not worried about that. Here’s the thing: dude has a small penis. Read the rest of this entry →

Seduction! Er, How Do I Do It?

January 11, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

Q: I am new to the whole sex thing. I am eighteen and I want to learn how to seduce my partner. It’s so easy for him to seduce me, but I want to know how to seduce him. I tried dressing for him, wearing clothes that might suit his….needs? Do you have any advice on what I should try or just advice on seduction in general? Read the rest of this entry →

“How Do I Tell Him What I Want?”

January 4, 2012 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

Q: How do I tell my boyfriend that I want us to change positions more and that I want him to give me oral sex the way I do him? Read the rest of this entry →

Butt Plugs for Beginners

December 21, 2011 at 5:00 pm in The Frisky Feminist

Q: My boyfriend and I have already experimented with anal fingering and a bit of anal sex (me receiving for the anal sex part and us both receiving for fingering) we would like to try using a butt plug. How do you get started with them? Do you have any suggestions of types to try for beginners? Read the rest of this entry →

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