Q. If a solid latex dildo has been lubed or washed with the wrong product, and is now sticky, is there a way to neutralize the deterioration, or should we just get a new one? Read More Sex On The Micro-Side: Your Questions, Redux
There is a lot of joy in writing a sex and love column. For the most part, you as the “advice-giver,” which is a questionable title to begin with, are able to muddle through the thick of it with someone else. Read More Sex on the Micro Side: Your Questions, Redux
Q. When my boyfriend and I first got together, he was very interested in trying anal sex. It took a couple of months of convincing, but I finally agreed to try it. I quickly found that I loved it. Read More When Sex Becomes a Pickle
A preamble, my lambs. Butt play for men is still a touchy topic. Nary will you see many straight men rushing to tell of their adventures with butt plugs, toys, and butt sex, much less the enjoyment that can come from it. Read More Butt Boys: Sex on the Micro-side
Q. What is the best silicone lube? Read More All For One, One For Lube: What Lube To Use?
[NSFW pictures after the cut.] Q. “My boyfriend is interested in incorporating anal play into sex. We tried but it wasn’t so successful. But honestly, it wasn’t so bad either. I used lots of lube and used a condom on my finger to slip it in. I just was at a loss to where the “male G-spot” (the prostate gland) was. So a couple of questions: Read More Within Prostate Reason: How To Stimulate The Prostate
One of the joys of writing a sex column is the amount of questions we get. Without continued questions, there is no column and no way to talk about experiences or problems we may or may not have experienced. In many ways, it’s a little bit like group therapy, and even though I’m on one end of the question and answer dynamic, I feel as if we are all on that big couch, figuring it out together. Read More Sex On The Micro Side: Your Questions, Redux
Q. “I’ve always been all about preaching the joys of lubricant in anal sex. However… I have a partner I see maybe once a month, depending on if my work schedule takes me to his area. He’s fabulous. We aren’t romantic – I think we have different ideas about how to raise families or I’d venture giving that a try based on how easy our friendship and sexual connections are. But yes, it’s very good. Read More Ass And You Shall Receive: Anal Sex and Lubrication