Love the One You’re With (You, Babe)

Q. I have a rather boring question: I’m a 20-something virgin who wants to take the plunge and get herself a vibrator but I have no clue what to look out for. Any tips to help there be some rain in this desert? Read More Love the One You’re With (You, Babe)

Squirt Is The Word

Q. HOW DO I STOP THE SQUIRTING? OK, I’m not embarrassed because my beau loves it. I just don’t appreciate when I’m trying to masturbate and suddenly Niagara Falls is like OH HAY GURL IMMA BE UP IN YO SHEETS KAY? I didn’t even know this was a real thing. One day my G-spot was found and that was it. Gah. Read More Squirt Is The Word

I Want To Go There: The Vintage Vibrator Museum

The vibrator. Next to penicillin and electricity, it stands as quite possibly one of the greatest inventions ever.  Read More I Want To Go There: The Vintage Vibrator Museum

Adventures at Babeland: Review of “The Art of Oral Sex” Workshop

Babeland is more than just a sex toy shop. The folks who work there are not simply cashiers or shop workers–they’re known as sex educators. And that’s exactly what two Babeland employees, Lauren and Lila, did. I attended and got majorly schooled at the workshop “The Art of Oral Sex” at their NYC SoHo location (which I had never been to, and is an absolutely beautiful and spacious haven of dildos, lube and porn, oh my!). (Warning: NSFW!) Read More Adventures at Babeland: Review of “The Art of Oral Sex” Workshop

Recharging Your Batteries For When You Need Some Holiday Self-Love

The holidays wear thin on my mental, physical, and emotional health. Between the manufactured cheer of holiday music, the yearly “War On Christmas” campaign, maddening consumer panic that eats people alive with a manic fury, and the balls-to-the-wall work schedule that I always think I can handle (I CAN HAVE IT ALL), it’s easy to overload on giving one’s self to the point of becoming a raggedy mess. Our own Golda Porestky said it best in her recent piece, The Gift of Receiving:

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