From the Archives: Bum’s the Word

Q: I’ve been toying with the idea of anal sex for MONTHS, literally months, and I can’t get up the courage to try it. Baby steps, yes, but taking that final leap still freaks me out for some reason. I think it’s a combo of the poo issue and the horror stories you hear about rips/tears, etc. I know that’s not how it’d go, but even the remote possibility of that makes it really hard for me to get relaxed enough to be comfortable with the idea. Read More From the Archives: Bum’s the Word

Bum’s the Word

Q: I’ve been toying with the idea of anal sex for MONTHS, literally months, and I can’t get up the courage to try it. Baby steps, yes, but taking that final leap still freaks me out for some reason. I think it’s a combo of the poo issue and the horror stories you hear about rips/tears, etc. Read More Bum’s the Word

A Round Peg in a Small Hole

Welcome to The Frisky Feminist, Persephone Magazine’s resident sexpert couple’s advice column answering all your sexuality related questions with honesty, enthusiasm and humor.   Content below the cut may be considered NSFW, so proceed at your own risk.  ~ed

Q: What is the best way to broach pegging with a new guy? Do you wait for him to bring it up? What can I say that won’t freak him out?