“How Do I Talk to Him About the Kind of Sex I Want to Have?”

Q: Here’s the thing. My boyfriend has a medical condition, a blood disorder, the result of which is occasional ED. I’d like to be able to say that it doesn’t matter… but it does. I like very traditional sex. And I’m not sure that’s an option. Read More “How Do I Talk to Him About the Kind of Sex I Want to Have?”

Anxiety, Insecurity, and Erections

Q: When The Boy and I have sex, it is good sex. It is fabulous and we are careful and adventurous and satisfying and it’s lovely. But we’ll have months of being at it like rabbits and then I don’t know, something happens and he loses his erection. And then we don’t have sex for months… Read More Anxiety, Insecurity, and Erections

MSCL: All About Brian

It’s like this show reads my mind. Just when I started to think that we needed to Talk About Brian, they give us a Brian-centric (and Brian-narrated!) episode. It was kind of funny how they just started off with some Brian narration, as if it were the most normal thing in the world. Read More MSCL: All About Brian

One Ring to Rule Them All

Q: My husband has expressed interest in using cock rings.  I’m down for it too.  What should we know about using them safely before we start?  I don’t want to constrict him so much that his dick falls off.

Loss of dick would indeed put a damper on things. First, good for you and your husband for making safety a priority. It can be easy to get swept up in the moment or to get so eager about trying something new that you don’t take the time to learn about how to do it properly, which can sometimes work out just fine but other times not so much.

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