Sex On The Micro-Side: Your Questions, Redux

Q. If a solid latex dildo has been lubed or washed with the wrong product, and is now sticky, is there a way to neutralize the deterioration, or should we just get a new one? Read More Sex On The Micro-Side: Your Questions, Redux

Age Ain’t Nothing But A Number: Sex At 60

Q. I have not had sex in 17 years and am about to turn 60. I am entering a great relationship though and am really worried about the possible pain since I have been a nun for so long. I used to have GREAT sex when younger and never any problems whatsoever. I have never used a vibrator, but have pleasured myself, just not with penetration. What can I do to prepare my body? My mind is ready…  Read More Age Ain’t Nothing But A Number: Sex At 60

Ass And You Shall Receive: Anal Sex and Lubrication

Q. “I’ve always been all about preaching the joys of lubricant in anal sex. However… I have a partner I see maybe once a month, depending on if my work schedule takes me to his area. He’s fabulous. We aren’t romantic – I think we have different ideas about how to raise families or I’d venture giving that a try based on how easy our friendship and sexual connections are. But yes, it’s very good. Read More Ass And You Shall Receive: Anal Sex and Lubrication

Clean Up On Aisle Four: Taking Care Of Sex Toys

Q. Could you talk about the different cleansers for sex toys and stuff? I usually just use safe anti-bacterial soap, but a partner of mine is picky about clean up around sex – he even has us shower every time. Since we are going to introduce my toys into couple’s play, I figured I should ask. 

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Lubricating The Hard Parts: Body Insecurity and Sex

Q. I’m recovering from some serious body-insecurity issues which had a bad impact on my sex life with my husband. We take care of ourselves (and help each other with that, occasionally), but we’re both wanting to get the sex back in. Unfortunately, I feel like my insides have shrunk and sex hurts a lot more than it used to, so it ends up being frustrating. Most lubricants seem to sting (I think it might be the glycerin). How can we ease back into things without getting too frustrated? Read More Lubricating The Hard Parts: Body Insecurity and Sex

Anal Over Here, Anal Over There (Anal, Anal, Anal Everywhere)

Q. I’m a BBW, how can I fully enjoy and get into anal sex? I’m 47 and have never done this. [NSFW images after the cut] Read More Anal Over Here, Anal Over There (Anal, Anal, Anal Everywhere)