We know there’s a wide range of Persephoneers with really different experience levels out there, but something that keeps coming up in both our real-life conversations and online discussions is interest/nervousness/hesitation about going to sex shops. Read More The First Timer’s Guide to Shopping in a Sex Store
Q: Any recommendations on good sex toys for men who’ve never really used them before?
A: The first thing we can recommend is that vibrators aren’t just for vulvas anymore – in fact, even many of the ones made for lady-part stimulation can work just as well on boy-parts, Read More A Wonderful Toy That’s Fun for a Boy
Q: My husband has expressed interest in using cock rings. I’m down for it too. What should we know about using them safely before we start? I don’t want to constrict him so much that his dick falls off.
Loss of dick would indeed put a damper on things. First, good for you and your husband for making safety a priority. It can be easy to get swept up in the moment or to get so eager about trying something new that you don’t take the time to learn about how to do it properly, which can sometimes work out just fine but other times not so much.