Greetings, dear readers, and welcome to the very first installment of this week’s commenter-wide sex forum! As I previously mentioned, I’ll be here all week leading discussions related to sex and age. Let’s get started, shall we? Read More Let’s Talk Sex: Let the Festivities Begin!
Q: What do you do when you find yourself dependent on a particular kink to get turned on or get off? I’m into kink-light (hair pulling, some domination and restraint, but nothing too major) and I am totally ok with all this. But, it’s not what I want all of our sex to be, and I find myself getting so much more turned on when that’s a part of our activities, and it’s gotten to the point where I’m not particularly into it until my boyfriend starts pulling my hair or getting a little rough. Basically: how do you balance kinks and fetishes with a desire to continue getting turned on by and getting off on “vanilla” sex?