Deus ex MacIntosh

Deus ex MacIntosh: What Should I Be When I Grow Up?

Dear Selena, I’m a lady on the verge of adulthood, and I have no idea what I want to do with my life. Can you and TV help me decide?



Dear Confused,

First, congrats on this big step! Adulthood is a lot of work, but it’s a lot of fun, too. No matter what you decide, you’re about to have some great adventures. Which is a good thing, because if we use TV as our guide, your career choices as a lady are pretty limited. Live it up while you still can.

Television jobs for ladies can be divided by the lady in question’s socio-economic status. There’s totally a serious column in that, but I’ll leave it for my bolder sisters here at P-mag; we’re here to poke fun.

If you’d consider yourself to be at the less wealthy end of the income spectrum, television says you’re a waitress or a cleaning lady, unless you’re a sex worker with a heart of gold. In the ’70s, we had Alice, Flo, and Vera on Alice. In the ’80s, we had Mrs. Garrett on Diff’rent Strokes and The Facts of Life and Roseanne Conner on Roseanne. In the ’90s, I didn’t watch a lot of TV because I was in school or working three jobs so I’m a little sparse on examples. In this century, we’ve got the spacehookers on Firefly and the 2 Broke Girls.

If you’re a lady more in the middle of the wealth spectrum, your options open up a little bit. You can be a public defender, a nurse, a cop or a teacher. You can also be a stay-at-home mom/wife. Choose your choice! As long as it’s non-threatening and traditionally female. (See: Our Miss Brooks, Everybody Loves Raymond, most hospital shows before 1990, all of the L&O franchise and How I Met Your Mother.)

If you’re fortunate enough to be on the “money worries are for chumps” end of the wealth spectrum, you’d think your career opportunities would be wide open. Except you’d be wrong. If you’re a wealthy career woman, you can be a lawyer, a doctor, a judge, a socialite, a lady who works in “media” or a model/actress. (See: All hospital shows since the 1990’s, Judging Amy, any daytime or nighttime soap opera, The Good Wife and any guest role on the L&O franchise that isn’t a sex worker or a drug addict.)

Hope this helps!



By [E] Selena MacIntosh*

Selena MacIntosh is the owner and editor of Persephone Magazine. She also fixes it when it breaks. She is fueled by Diet Coke, coffee with a lot of cream in it, and cat hair.

9 replies on “Deus ex MacIntosh: What Should I Be When I Grow Up?”

ZOE *cough cough*

She could totally be an upstanding, honest, loyal, and kick-ass lady who gets the job done.

Let’s not forget Kaylee, who, despite her cute and bubbly approach to damn near everything, is basically a mechanical whiz and therefore indispensable to the crew.

Finally, River. Tam.

I rest my case.


OH! But hey! If you’ve had a rough childhood such as abandonment (physically or emotionally) by a mother – you can go into law enforcement!  (L&O, Veronica Mars – she got that FBI internship after all!)

But, I say just sit and wait for the next slayer to die and take over the role when your new watcher arrives.

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