There’s a question mark up in that title, because in today’s Orgasm Challenge Update, I want to know about toys that get it done for you.
Remember when the Sybian saddle thing was the Big Sex Thing a few years ago? Howard Stern was all nuts about it and there was this rash of internet porn of women just… sitting on it? Yeah, I guess I don’t watch a lot of Internet porn, but I always wonder what the latest and greatest toys are out there for having fun (partnered or otherwise). Truthfully, my partner and I are vaguely interested in using toys, but we’ve been too lazy to actually go buy some.
So, what kinds of toys are you guys using? What are the best ones out there, and what makes them so great?
And, how are you coming (lol) on the orgasms?
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HOW THE HELL DID I MISS THIS POST?! SEX TOYS ARE MY LIFE! Well not my life, but I do have an ever-growing collection and love incorporating new things into the bedroom. Ugh. Stupid work and party kept me from my P*Mag =[[[[[[[[
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All of these comments are so helpful! Great work, ladies!
I have a Duet, got it for Xmas, and LOVE it. It’s pricey, but small, quiet, and does the job like nothing I’ve ever used before. I have a lot of toys and this is hands down my favourite one. (I keep it in my purse for emergencies too!)
No tips on toys … I’m one of the ones looking for tips! And as for the challenge, well, for the past couple of weeks I’ve struggled. One was due to my period, but before and after that… I suspect I am dealing with winter depression, and I dislike forcing myself to ‘get into the mood’. I have no partner, so I’m just trying to relax and be accepting of it, while hopefully working myself out of this and back into a better place.
I totally feel you. (I’m a pretty regular sufferer of SAD, too.) Sometimes the endorphin rush at the end is worth pushing through for. Sometimes, honestly, it’s not. Hang in there! Take things at your own pace.
I still have to get over my (HUGE) boundary of using toys, although le bf gave me one for last year’s Valentine. I think I’m quite up to date with the orgasms though.
I prefer Jimmy Jane products. They are pleasing both physically AND aesthetically!
I have had an Eroscillator for over ten years, no joke. It is crazy expensive (current base model is $140), but an ex-boyfriend bought it for me. It is loud, which sucks and it kind of gets in the way of partner sex, but I’m not having any of that currently or on the horizon, so that’s not an issue. It is corded and the cord is super-long, which is a bonus. It is showing no signs of dying anytime soon. It’s strictly a clitoral stimulator. Dr. Ruth endorses it, and who doesn’t love her?
My other one is the Gigi by Lelo. Another pricey one, but this was a treat to myself a couple years ago. It’s rechargeable, which I love, being the environmental nutjob I am, and it’s pretty. All of Lelo’s products are high-quality. I got mine at either Toys in Babeland or Good Vibrations. One can usually find coupons online for them. PM me if you want some of my online coupon sites.
I have recycled unwanted toys through Scarlet Girl. They give a site credit after they process your unwanted/broken/bad decision toys.
I feel like I know far more about this than maybe I should. This is what happens when one is 37 and never married. Also, close the door to the bedroom. No cats allowed during personal sexytimes.
A place to recycle toys? What a great idea! I have two that I don’t like anymore and have been baffled as to what to do with them!
Yes! The thought is slightly skeevy, but just wash them well and put them in the smallest box you can (to save postage) and ship them away! Think of it as keeping people employed. Recycling FTW!
I second what Lilydancing said, what a great idea to recycle them! I have a vibrator that been sitting around collecting dust since I got my most recent addition. I’ll have to check that out!
I do love the dual action vibrator that I got a few months ago at a sex toy party (pureromance.com). They are a bit more expensive than your average sex toy, but WELL worth it. I’m in a looong distance relationship so it helps me get through the cold nights ;)
I got my first vibrator and met one of my best friends at a pure romance party!
Lol, that would be an interesting to story to tell of how you guys met! The party was definitely fun and a learning experience :)
Cue the fireworks. Seriously. Last night: partnered and multiple. Not to mention a surprise to both of us that it happened at all, but, oh my, much needed and much enjoyed.
Toys! The hybrid vibrators are great fun. The ones that are maybe four inches long, or so? They’re fantastic for (excuse the pun) slipping into the action, whatever is going on. And ceramic dildos. Seriously, buy one. They are mind-blowing wonderful.