Welcome to another wonderful, wonderful day in Persephone-land. You sure look swell today.As usual, we’ve got a great slate of articles rolling off the press for you, but before we get to that, let’s talk lunch time poll.
As I sat down to write this last night, the Internet was just starting to buzz about Deadspin’s really excellent investigative piece into Manti Te’o and his tragically perfect, perfectly tragic deceased girlfriend, who it appears never really existed. I’m not usually one to recommend hanging out on Deadspin, but this is a very interesting piece on football, fame, and Catfishing. There’s surely more information yet to be revealed, but the story had me thinking about scams. I’m sort of fascinated by the psychology of someone pouring so much time and energy into pretending to be someone else, for no real gain.
Have you ever been caught up in a scam, Internet, Catfish, or otherwise?
7 replies on “Lunch Time Poll — Ever Had The Wool Pulled Over Your Eyes?”
My college bff convinced me senior year that she wasn’t fooling around with a guy our former roommate had been madly in love with for years. She eventually admitted that she totally had been. Bitch.
Any time I ever went out with a guy who said they were taller than me on their dating profile. One was actually 5 inches shorter! And I had worn heels because he said he was a few inches taller than me. It was awkward.
Hmmm ..probably but I never consciously experienced the OMG Fake! moment. Luckily?
I dated a catfish online for a while, but it turns out he was married. We fried him up with some hush puppies and served him up with a little lemon and tartar sauce.
Oh sure, I think anyone who socializes at all online has either been faked out, or know someone who has. Just off the top of my head I can think of a couple of popular bloggers from my LJ days who turned out to be total fakes, or friends from my chat room days who were catfished. The internet makes it so easy to pretend to be someone you aren’t.
Anyone who’s ever dated online has had the wool pulled over her eyes. :/
I don’t think everyone on dating sites is a Catfish-style liar. For most there’s no more deception (more like creative divulging of your personality so as not to scare the other person away) than any other kind of dating.