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paperispatient wrote a new post, “Why Can’t We Have Sex?” 8 years, 1 month ago
We want to preface our response to this question with the reminder that neither of us are medical professionals of any kind. All of our ideas should be taken as suggestions of things to read more about on your own […] -
paperispatient wrote a new post, One Ring to Rule Them All 8 years, 1 month ago
Q: My husband has expressed interest in using cock rings. I’m down for it too. What should we know about using them safely before we start? I don’t want to constrict him so much that his dick falls off.Loss […]
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paperispatient wrote a new post, Vanilla, Rocky Road, and All the Flavors In Between 8 years, 1 month ago
Q: What do you do when you find yourself dependent on a particular kink to get turned on or get off? I’m into kink-light (hair pulling, some domination and restraint, but nothing too major) and I am totally ok […] -
paperispatient wrote a new post, Good Sex Without Bad Sax 8 years, 1 month ago
Q: I’m looking for women-friendly porn and erotica (ESPECIALLY erotica) sites. Dirty stories are my favorite thing in the whole wide world, but the only sites I know of are literotica (meh) and the Erotica […] -
paperispatient wrote a new post, How to Be Good at Sex 8 years, 1 month ago
As you saw in our last post, there is no shortage of advice on how to be good, better, the best at sex. Magazines like Cosmopolitan, Glamour, and Men’s Health are full of suggestions on how to surprise, delight, […] -
paperispatient wrote a new post, She’s My (Oil-Based, Artifically-Flavored) Cherry Pie 8 years, 1 month ago
For this week’s column, we dug into our nightstand drawer in order to review all of the tasty (and not-so-tasty) sex accessories we’ve collected. Flavored condoms and dental dams can make practicing safer sex (or […] -
paperispatient wrote a new post, A New Year of Sex 8 years, 1 month ago
Even though we understand why New Year’s resolutions are not beneficial to or beloved by everyone, both of us really enjoy them. Resolutions can offer an opportunity to revamp parts of your life you feel need some […]
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paperispatient wrote a new post, Sexual Mythbusters, Vol. 1: “When you have one, you’ll know.” 8 years, 1 month ago
Our impressions of what sex is or should be like come from many sources – the media, movies, porn, our friends and peers, our religious community if we have one, health classes if we had them, and so on. As you […] -
paperispatient wrote a new post, Boundaries and Biting: “What Should I Do?” 8 years, 1 month ago
Q: I’m having some trouble with a new partner of mine not respecting my boundaries. I have told him repeatedly not to leave visible bite marks/hickeys on my neck/upper chest, but he keeps doing it. I think that […]
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paperispatient wrote a new post, Sexual Mythbusters, Vol. 2: All Hymens Are Created Equal 8 years, 1 month ago
If bad romance novels are to be believed, the hymen is a few inches inside the vagina and must be abruptly broken with a dramatic, grunting thrust. As you may suspect, however, this is not quite accurate, and by […] -
paperispatient wrote a new post, “How Can I Get Past My Past?” 8 years, 1 month ago
Q: I’m feeling bad about my sexual history. I don’t have that many previous partners, but I have had a one-night stand and some other casual sex. My boyfriend has been with me and one other serious long-term […]
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paperispatient wrote a new post, Bum’s the Word 8 years, 1 month ago
Q: I’ve been toying with the idea of anal sex for MONTHS, literally months, and I can’t get up the courage to try it. Baby steps, yes, but taking that final leap still freaks me out for some reason. I think it’s a […]
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paperispatient wrote a new post, “How Can We Turn Our Sex Life Around After Trauma?” 8 years, 1 month ago
Q: I’ve been in a long-term relationship with an amazing man who I love and trust a lot. We communicate well and we’re very open about past, present, and future, in all regards. Two major life events have put a […]
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paperispatient wrote a new post, Bondage 101 (Part 1) 8 years, 1 month ago
Q: I’d personally love a good 101 type article on light bondage. Toys, where to start, how to set boundaries, that sort of thing.
A: This is one of our favorite subjects, and we’re so excited about it that […]
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paperispatient wrote a new post, Bondage 101 (Part 2) 8 years, 1 month ago
This is the second half of our two-part series in response to a request for information on light bondage. Today – toys! !–more–What kinds of things do you need to start indulging your interests in BDSM? You’re […] -
paperispatient wrote a new post, Tentacles, Disembodied Tongues, and the Horn of Plenty 8 years, 1 month ago
We often talk about how we think it’s important to be able to laugh about sex. Also, I’m still scrambling to finish the rough draft of my thesis, so I wanted something entertaining but quick to talk about. (NSFW […] -
paperispatient wrote a new post, The Case of the Vanishing Sex Drive 8 years, 1 month ago
Q: I’ve been married for about a year now. I have always considered myself to be a fairly frisky person. I enjoy sex. I could easily have sex every day for months on end. But for some reason, about 3 months after […]
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paperispatient wrote a new post, The Hair Affair 8 years, 1 month ago
We recently received a request for an article on “personal grooming, especially shaving,” which we are pretty sure means giving your junk a haircut (technical terms here). And you know our motto — “We Will Help […] -
paperispatient wrote a new post, “How Do I Start Having Sex Again?” 8 years, 1 month ago
Q: My husband and I stopped having sex when I was going through a rough time (yeast infection + depression + recovering from trauma). I needed the break because it got to the point that I was feeling physically […]
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paperispatient wrote a new post, Cock Rings – How Do They Work? 8 years, 1 month ago
Q: Cock rings. Wow. Fucking cock rings. !–more–Whew. Good times. Do you have any experience with them? Tips, tricks?A: Ooh, it sounds like somebody has had some fun with them already!
One of our first […]
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