Q. Could you write a primer, or provide links to decent online ones, on how to either get into a local kink community or find safe, like-minded people? Specific advice for individuals who are new to kink and do not know what they want yet would be especially appreciated. Thanks for your awesome column!
Q. “I am a guy and I have a fetish with jeans, tight jeans. I go shopping for the tightest I can find and wear them places where people don’t know me. Is this a common thing or am I out there?”